It has only one step. Ready? Train yourself to NOT want what you don't get!
Stoics do this by simply enduring the hardship and suppressing their feelings. Buddhists (some at least) do it by denying desire altogether. Cucumbers succeed by having neither opinions nor aspirations.
Those who follow after God can achieve this joyfully, energetically and mindfully. Believers can train to not want what they don't get by learning to connect deeply and intimately with the one who gives all things. By relating so completely to the Creator that the very structure of heart and mind slowly shifts.
So here is what we need to do: "Take delight in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart." (Ps. 37:4) Rather than petition a Santa-Claus-God, open your heart to the giver of life and let His goodness surprise you.
Disclaimer: This "formula" is for well-healed Westerners and what they "want". People can't train themselves not to want basic needs like food and safety. But if you have plenty and you take Ps. 37:4 seriously, you will soon find yourself becoming an active participant in God's answer for the destitute - and you'll love doing it!
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